talk dirty + start discovering more of what you desire

Sure, we know sex is awesome, we know it's good for us, we know we're happier and easier to get along with when we're getting a little (or a lot). And we're not alone... according to Indiana University's Kinsey Institute, 95% of women fantasize about dirty talk. Still, sometimes it's hard to get your head in the game and even harder to dive into the dirty talk, especially when you feel self-conscious about how to start or what to say. If you or your partner have trouble communicating what you want or need, or you just want to spice things up, try this list of sexy lingo and suggestive turn-ons to lubricate the mood, ease into that verbal foreplay, up your intimacy vibes and more deeply connect to each other. Hot talk leads to hot talk so just get the ball rolling and see where it leads.  If you're flying solo, use these ideas to spark new fantasies, enrich your bucket list or get you in the mood for some delicious self-fvcking. And remember, whether you're a seasoned pro at dirty talk or new to the game, incorporate what feels good to you, including your favorite naughty words or couples speak so it feels natural to you.

xxx

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I love it when you [insert specific, very visual action here].


Remember that time when we [insert amazing fvckfest memory here]


If you guess what lingerie I bought today, I’ll give you a fashion show...


I had the most insanely sexy dream last night… 


You know that sexy little thing you do with your tongue... 


You know what position I’ve always wanted to try…

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I was thinking about our bedroom bucket list... 


BDSM… how far have you gone? How far would you go?


The way you [insert sexy thing] really turns me on. 


 The one thing that always turns me on…  


I've always wanted to [insert your most delicious + daring fantasy]... 


My favorite place to be kissed is… 


My favorite place to be licked is… 


Tell me whether you like [this] or [that]... think tub sex or shower sex... eyes open or closed.... 

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I’ll show you how I touch myself if you show me… 


Tell me about the yummiest sex you’ve ever had…


The most delicious part of your body is… 


I was touching myself today and was thinking of you... 


When I use my vibrator, I think about...


If I agree to say yes no matter what, what's the one thing you want me to do to you?



What words, phrases or conversation starters are in your talk dirty sex bible to get your lover or get them into the mood? 

xxx, Lunatic Femme

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