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do you play in bed? new sexy date night ideas to make fucking more fun
make date night hotter, funner and more fuckable
You don't new years resolutions to kickstart a sexier life one fuck at a time, but honestly it doesn't hurt. Use the naughty, playful, sexy, yummy, dirty, kinky {insert your fav way to play] ideas below to craft your own playbook or add them to our 30-day challenge for instant date nights.
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Toss your yummiest lingerie in a box, whatever piece either of you pulls out is what you have to wear for the night.
Masturbate for your lover and, if they're good, they can call a few strokes or new positions.
Learn the art of the lap dance and add a new level of seduction to your playbook. Layer up your lingerie, cue the soundtrack, peel off the layers over the course of your favorite song or playlist.
Worship their feet, their toes, their calves. So many delicious pleasure points for you to ignite.
Restrain them. You don't have to go full handcuffs… use silks, belts, blindfolds, bondage tape, get creative and start really playing once they're bound.
Host a dinner party with a sexy theme… sex toy gift exchange, lingerie dress code, erotica readings, send your guests home (or let them stay) horny AF.
Worship their cock or pussy. Treat it like it's your lover, seduce it, talk dirty to it, kiss, stroke, nibble, tease, celebrate, adorn, stroke, pet, lick and spoil it like it's your most cherished prize. This sort of consensual worship brings on new levels of intimacy and play.
Give them a To Do (a To Touch, a To Taste...) list for the evening written in lipliner on your mirror — is romantic, seductive, dirty, playful? Or maybe all of it.
Slowly dress each other before you go out so your fingerprints are already all over one another.
Shift your mood by starting with a couples spa treatment in a shared private room. Or, hire massage therapists for in-home sessions. Even better, book an online massage class and trade sessions with your lover.
Try a boudoir session either with a pro or set up a DIY shoot at home. You'll create a sexy, lusty vibe and lasting memories.
If you normally fuck with penetration, how about zero penetration and see how creative you can get?
If threesomes are boring you, make it a four-some or a play party.
Re-decorate a room or space with artful sex toys (crystal dildos), massage oil candles, erotic coffee table books then take turns using them as inspiration for foreplay.
Learn some shibari knots and see what the hype is about. Books, YouTube videos, pro Doms, sex coaches, online workshops. Discover how you learn best.
Surround yourself with aphrodisiacs … luscious nibbles, erotically charged candles, yummy touchable textures, visual cues, a soundtrack that makes you want to grind your hips.
Finger or body painting.
Up-level your cowgirl and reverse cowgirl with some new hip play. Can you bounce, grind, figure 8, shift your hips or otherwise find new pleasure points, speeds or angles for both of you? Practice makes yumminess.
Are you an expert face sitter? Got that perfect hand job? Work a pussy like a pro? If not, book an online sex class and sex up those skills.
Naked magic hour, naked cocktailing, naked dinner prep, naked stargazing. You get the idea. Get naked and sex up your routines.
Play a word game (scrabble, mad libs, etc) using only your most specific erotic lingo. Bonus points if you use those words once the game is over. Double bonus if you add a stripping element.
Mask up. Role play is your friend and theirs.
Scavenger hunt (around your house or your city) where you’re in control of where they go, what they do and what they receive when they arrive.
Feed each other (not yourselves) during an entire, deliciously slow dinner.Use your fingers, your bodies, your mouths. Sushi is the obvious menu choice, but go wild.
Get off of autopilot by challenging yourself to do absolutely nothing the same way you've done it before. Intoxicate yourself with the curiosity of what's new, different, unexpected and on your bucket list.
So you've mastered giving your lover an orgasm, how about becoming a master a denying them one?
If you're a pro dirty talker, can you take your skills in public? How quietly can you seduce you lover from across the table with your whispered words? Bonus points if you can maintain eye contact.
Kiss like you fuck. Slow it down to half speed, infuse twice the passion, accessorize your technique with bites, nibbles, ice cubes, warm chocolate, moans, whatever turns you and them on.
Improvise your own real-time playbook for the date with inspiration from a game of This or That or Never Have I Ever.
Start date night at the sex store, open your purchases in the car.
If you don't have a blindfold in your repertoire, it's 2024, LFG. The easiest way to start is to blindfold them and do what you normally do. If you're intermediate, switch who is in control, who obeys the commands and incorporate kinkier play like edging, temperature play and erotic massage.
Tell us your most delicious date night ideas.
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