pussy worship 101: vulva owners + lovers, this how to's for you
worship her pussy + make her feel like a queen
The yummy practice of pussy worship isn't a new thing, but we'd certainly argue it's not practiced enough. At its core, the idea is to revere the pussy (hence the name) as well as the pussy owner, elevating her in a long, luscious, erotic journey of pleasure and service. For some, this art is kink-adjacent, but for others, it's simply a fabulous Tuesday afternoon. Whatever your preferences, you can use these tips to start or further your practice in order to build greater intimacy and connection with your lover(s).
Let's do this... xxx
the who
anyone rocking a vulva is the one being worshiped aka the receiver. And the lover is the worshiper aka the giver. But we would argue that both are giving and receiving in a mutual, consensual exchange of gratitude, surrender, trust and, yes, adoration.
the how
we'll make this a checklist, so whether you're the worshiper or the one being worshiped, you can add your own likes, dislikes, pleasures and more.
the what
this is about the complete celebration, adoration and art of gifting the pussy you're with (or you have) all the erotic charge, appreciation, energy, lust, love in the ways that she likes so she surrenders fully to the moment, no fears, no worries, no concerns about how she looks, feels, tastes, smells, no stress about the time being spent on her. just an in-the-moment, intimate, erotic savoring of the pussy.
let the worshiping begin
worship with your hands
this is all about the build-up so start touching, stroking, massaging her body, building up excitement, arousal and blood flow as you move toward her pussy. Continue your words, your eye contact and your worshipping.
worship with their eyes blindfolded...
how do they respond when you remove their gaze. Let them only hear your words (your breath, the music), feel your fingers (your toys, your hair against the skin)... Heighten intimacy through vulnerability and the thrill of the unknown. We like the 4-in-1 blindfold-mask with three ties, leaving an extra tie for your eyes and two more for restraints.
worship with luxury...
wrap her lace, silk, body jewelry... whatever dresses her up like the queen she is. We love playing in our deja vu 18 cupless bodysuit with its decadent lace, gold-plated hardware and straps that reattach as leg bands to grip the thighs and heighten the yumminess.
worship with your unwrapping
undress her, unzip her, untie her... however she's presented, you control the slow reveal, savoring every inch of the peel off and building up her arousal. depending on your positions, a back-to-front zipper can add another layer of seduction.
worship with your eyes
take her in through pussy gazing, enjoying how she looks and connecting back to her eyes.
worship with your words
give her compliments, say what you truly love about her pussy. Go slowly, be specific, be honest, be dirty if she likes that, be sure to keep asking what she likes and getting consent along the way, and be cognizant of words she likes to use (ie if "pussy" makes her cringe, but "cunt" gets her juices flowing, stick to her script, not yours).
worship with your attention to detail
are the sheets silky enough to tickle her skin? the pillows plush enough to cradle her body. the room temperature warm enough to keep her cozy while you worship?
worship with your connection
connect with her through your eyes, your heart, your breath and your energy to be in the moment and help her begin to feel safe enough to surrender.
worship with your pace
savor the moment. the more slowly you go and the more time you take to show you’re connecting to her, her pussy, the moment, shows you want to be there with her. show her there's no rush, nowhere else to be, no timer on the indulgence clock. You're in for the pleasure, the longer, the better...
worship her erogenous zones
do you stroke your way to her pleasure? tease? tempt? massage? heighten her pleasure and up her arousal by bringing her thighs into the mix with leg garters or harnesses that gently add compression and stimulate blood flow.
worship with candlelight
ambiance is everything when creating a mood. maybe she wants dimmer lighting or candlelight for more luxurious. worshiping. set the scene for indulgence, adoration and celebration so she feels as exquisite as she truly is.
worship her thighs
worship with your mouth, your hands, your tongue, your breath
going slowly, focus on her inner and outer labia, her clitoris, her g-spot, changing your stroke, your rhythm, asking what she likes, what she wants, what she craves. This is definitely not a race and the mission isn't an orgasm (especially because we're lessening the pressure of an end game). Instead, it's all about pure pleasure and desire.
worship with her favorite playthings
if she loves toys, add them, teasing, try it. The more open you are, the more she'll open up and sink into being worshipped.
worship with seductive music
what genres moves her hips, relax her body, indulge her senses and help her get out of her head and into moment? pro move? create a pussy worship playlist helps her surrender and focus on all the queen-like attention she's being gifted.
have you tried pussy worship? what were your aha moments?
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