do you kiss like you fuck? 33 sexy ideas for how to kiss "better"

read these kiss-better tips for juicier, yummier lip action

Want to learn how to kiss "better?" We put "better" in quotes because what makes a deliciously sexy kiss is obviously super subjective... how much wetness, how much tongue, how much passion, the list goes on. But what we can agree on is that there are always opportunities to switch up your kissing style so you stay passionate, excited, aroused and, yes, fucking into it, whether it's your 5th time kissing your lover or your 5000th. We've got some inspiration below for you to infuse your own brand of you. Just add style, lust, love and of course, consent and communication.

kiss like you fuck + kiss better, lover

play, flirt, taunt

add nibbles, bites, tease

suck, lick, graze your tongue over their lips

pause to take in your lover, savor the moment, catch your breath (and theirs)

make eye contact

steal a glance, connect with them to keep it sexy and intimate

compliment their kiss, tell them what's turning you on

try lip worshipping (think cock worship or pussy worship, but make it lips)

move beyond the lips to chin, neck, earlobes and other erogenous zones

change intensity from slow and featherlight to deep and passionate (and everything in between)

use ice cubes for some kinky temperature play (think your cold lips and tongue in their warm mouth.)

feed them... strawberries, chocolates, your fingers

incorporate champagne, a cocktail, liquid chocolate... whatever you can slowly pour into their mouths and over their lips to drink in and lick off together

wear your hottest, fuck-off red lipstick so you leave kiss marks wherever your lips land

touch their nipples, stroke their thighs, stimulate their body to make kissing their lips even better, juicier, richer...

bring out the toys like their favorite anal plug, crystal dildo, nipple clamps so they're ignited beyond the lips

tie them up, handcuff them, restrain them so you hold the power of the kiss... the where, the when, the how

add in choking (if this particular BDSM play is in your consensual repertoire)

use energy play by connecting with them before your lips even touch

kiss them passionately even when you're not DTF i.e. when they come home, when they leave, when you pass by them on the way to another room so you stay juicy and connected between fucks

dress for the occasion... a sexy outfit you can strip off as you kiss, your most scandalous lingerie, a lingerie harness around your neck for that sexy tease or that delicious fierceness, absolutely nothing but your sweet-ass naked body

ask them what they like and what they want

tell them in delicious detail what want to do with them, with their bodies, with their cock or pussy or ass or [insert your sexy storytelling here]

share your fantasies between kisses (include what you're wearing, how your bodies are touching, where your fingers are exploring, where they're allowed to explore on your body...)

seduce them with dirty talk about how juicy and divine their lips taste, feel and look

add in romance and tenderness... the touch of their hair, the gratitude for them, the relishing and savoring of the moment

take fucking forever to get there by starting the kiss anywhere but the lips then moving around the body insanely slowly 'til you get there

try edging... yes, it's a BDSM technique that slowly brings you to orgasm, backs off, then rinses and repeats until you build to a more intense orgasm. Now do kissing. The pacing, the tease, the build-up, the backing off

switch up the mood... shy kisses, savage kisses, pissed-off kisses, hungry kisses, naughty kisses, teasing kisses...? they're all on the table.

hold their hands, stroke their fingers

incorporate your breath, your whispers, silent pauses. hearing how your lover's breathing intensifies, slows, excites, builds is an erotic soundtrack of its own

switch positions, make up new ones

kiss their cock, their pussy, their nipples, then tease them with their own taste

what are your favorite tips and tricks for how to kiss "better?" share, lunatics👇💋