orgasmic, soul-snatching erotic massages that beg to last
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erotic massage tools that turn a Tuesday night into something they're still reveling in on Friday
If you're down for an erotic massage that turns your lover's anticipation into pure erotic torture (in the most Zen-way way possible), we say, yes, yes.. yes....
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turn up the audio foreplay
Lull your lover into a state of erotic bliss just this side of the Zzzz. Infuse your space with an intoxicatingly sensual playlist that’s romantic, naughty or designed to keep them hovering somewhere between sleep and seduction.
bathe them
Nothing says foreplay like suds. Start by dry brushing your lover from the toes up to head, take an insanely long time and don’t miss an inch. Bathing each other preps the skin to receive and creates the kind of connection that makes everything afterward feel slower and more electric.
put assets on display
A deliciously soft, backless brief lets their luscious booty set the stage for a deliciously slow, focused massage. Yes, of course you’ll eventually peel them off whenever you're ready, but that’s part of the play, no? Or, if you’re the one orchestrating the pleasure, wear them yourself and reward your massage toy with a gentle spank if they’re a good client. Or if they’re not.
make assets part of the show
take away their certainty
Keeping your lover blindfolded and in a state of insanely relaxed suspense can heighten every sensation. While they're in darkness, sound amplifies, touch intensifies, scent seduces even more. It's that deliciously long anticipation for what comes next that drives your rhythm. No mask, no problem. Use the belt from our kimono robe, our opera gloves or even your panties.
make them beg to watch
prep their feet for worship
Wrapping their feet together in a hot, wet, essential-oil-scented towel relaxes their entire body into submission. Leave them immersed in heat while you move to other areas. You'll get back to them when you feel like it.
make them melt
The right massage bar redefines what's possible with touch. Firm enough to find the tension while slick enough to glide where you need to. We love the Sex Stone from Kate McLeod, which literally melts nourishing oils into your lover's skin as it kneads, massages and arouses. This one doubles as lube, but that's a story for later.
then force them to wait
Let them wait, watch or wonder what you're up to as you trade that old flannel robe for something a little more sensually professional, like sheer tulle or luscious silk. (Our kimono features detachable sleeves so you can keep your sleeves oil-free when you're the one orchestrating the mood and rhythm). Or wrap your lover in silk post-massage for the kind of aftercare they’ll think about for days.
then re-ignite their skin
Blend feather-light tickles with sweeps, glides and strokes of your hands to the tension deliciously unresolved. The trick is to never... quite... touch... the places they want most. That’s when anticipation becomes its own kind of torture.
pause to shift the ambiance
Intoxicate the space with aphrodisiac candles or incense that turn massage into slow submission. Stopping your strokes to light a match slows the pace and gently reminds them who's in charge.
refuse to let them touch
Think of it like visual edging... it's a look-don't-touch power dynamic that you can use to your advantage, especially when your lover is face down on the table. Give them the sneakiest peek through the headrest, drag the metal along their back as you massage them with your body. If your pasties have tassels, drag them along their skin for texture play.
When they flip over, do they get to watch you work? Directing their gaze can make the massage even richer.
power play but make it a nipple pastie
ruin their concentration
Turn your own body into an erotic tool by scenting your wrists, elbows, neck with fragrances that seduce them out of their om and under your spell. Bend to whisper in their ear, stroke their chest with your arms, work their neck with your wrists. You're marking your territory with aphrodisiacs.
indulge their feet
That hot towel you bound their feet with? Use it to exfoliate their skin, massage oils into them and worship them with your strokes, your breath, your attention. If they've been good, make it worth their wait.
drizzle them with hot wax
Drip a little more pleasure (and a dose of kink) into their skin with sensual massage candles that melt into warm wax layered with aphrodisiac scents. Do we really need to tell you what to do with this?
reward them
A barely there stack of peel-off-able panties lets you reward them with an irresistibly slow reveal during the massage. Or make them watch you work while begging for the after-party. Or both.
play with stackable, strip-off-able thongs + g-strings
then work your way the top
So. Much. Stress. Living in those tense, overworked muscles. Let’s take care of that for you. Glide the gua sha up their body from legs to neck like your own personal tension whisperer, turning pain points into pleasure one slow glide, twist and stroke at a time. Keep skin lubed with CBD-infused, aphrodisiac-scented massage oils. In a pinch, use straight-up coconut oil, which is naturally anti-bacterial.
mess with their mind
Use satin or silk sheets to create a sexier vibe and set the mood for the unexpected. If you don't have silky sheets, a fresh set of ultra-soft flannel cotton can feel plush against the skin. Vary your strokes over the fabric before slipping your fingers onto their skin. Play with using fabric to tease, knead or even add compression to wrists, inner thighs and ankles.
collar them
Remind your lover to surrender into the sheets by collaring them with a silky neck choker that delivers just enough tension to keep them beautifully behaved. If they misbehave, the collar opens wide enough to double as wrist or ankle restraints. Finish with a scalp and face massage that leaves them drooling.
shop butterfly waist cincher (worn as collar)
keep them guessing
Master the art of storytelling through power play. Vary speeds, move toward a climax then back off, tease relentlessly, and maybe you’re a little sorry.
add another set of 'hands'
Borrow a move from your favorite ‘body massager’ and use it to change the temperature in the room. What these tools lack in aesthetics and sweet talk, they make up for in pure performance. On the body, obviously.
restrain them
No one likes a fidgety client. Our multiplay SNKX straps were designed to play on bodies, sheets, tables... and well beyond. Slip them over wrists, ankles, massage beds and bare skin to restrain your lover to the table, style them as harnesses with your massage uniform or transform them into leashes when your favorite client needs to submit. Now be a good girl and lie still.
put lovers in their place with SNKX play straps + restraints
