We like to think that the sexiest at-home massages are a combination of passion, curiosity, communication and, of course, tools. We rounded up some toys, oils and other massage must-haves to up-level your home-massage game so you give and receive yummier massage experiences without leaving the house.
These super-trendy facial tools get props for their ability to increase circulation and boost collagen to help fight aging, but they're also an amazing way to relieve stress and ease tension in the face, neck and shoulders when massaging your lover (or yourself).
exfoliating loofahs or sponges
Make your at-home session last longer by adding a little bath-time foreplay to get you both relaxed. Bathing each other preps skin for the oils, ignites the skin and creates connection.
A deliciously erotic massage mixes levels of pressure and sensual touch. Toss in some strokes with a feather to keep that mystery and temptation alive. We're fans of this naughty pink version
meltable massage candle
burns into warm wax stacked with aphrodisiac scents you can drip all over your lover and you.
aphrodisiac or unscented candles
Flooding your pad with low-lit ambiance
instantly creates a sensual vibe. You can opt for aphrodisiac candles
or simple long-lasting tea lights or votives. Cabin Fever
from Forvr Mood
blends base notes of vanilla and sugared rose with ginger, fig, honey and more.
aphrodisiac incense sticks open creativity and courage with a sexy blend of orris absolute, bergamot, patchouli, frankincense, cinnamon, sandalwood, among others. $50 for 30.
Keeping your blindfold in a state of relaxed suspense can heighten their experience.
We love a good CBD-infused massage oil like the one from Lord Jones. Weleda warming massage oils act like lube for muscles. And we love Bloomi's version which is jacked with both CBD and botanical aphrodisiacs. In a pinch, use straight-up coconut oil, which is naturally anti-bacterial.
silk or satin sheets
If you don't have a massage table, you can always use your bed. Switching out the sheets adds a sexier vibe and sets the tone for the unexpected.
There are so many on the market from Theragun to Lola, but we like the OG Magic Wand. What it lacks in sex appeal and aesthetic, it makes up for in pure performance.
A scalp massage can be instant relaxation.
You want your partner relaxed but not necessarily asleep. We love a good sensual playlist that's romantic, naughty or designed to stretch foreplay to mindnumbing levels. If you're massaging solo, a nice playlist for one works brilliantly.
a sitter ;)
If you've got pets or kids or both, this is the time to make the house your own.
What massage tools do you use to heighten your erotic massages? 👇💋