up-level your foreplay game with erotic massage tools

We like to think that the hottest, at-home sensual massages are a combination of passion, curiosity, communication and, of course, tools. We rounded up some toys, oils and other massage must-haves to up-level your home-massage game so you give and receive yummier erotic massage experiences without leaving the house.


Stainless Steel Gua Sha Massage Tool


These super-trendy facial tools get props for their ability to increase circulation and boost collagen to help fight aging, but they're also an amazing way to relieve stress and ease tension in the face, neck and shoulders when massaging your lover (or yourself).

gua sha erotic massage tool

exfoliating loofahs or sponges


Make your at-home session last longer by adding a little bath-time foreplay to get you both relaxed. Bathing each other preps skin for the oils, ignites the skin and creates connection. If you're down for bath or shower play, gently dry brush your lover (or yourself) starting from the feet and working your way up, according to massage pros, to exfoliate skin, increase circulation and prep skin for absorbing oils. This extra, erotic step helps ignite the body and get you both in the moment.


erotic massage sponge

a luscious, double-duty robe


Keep it sexy by trading in that old flannel robe with a silk, multi-way kimono style. Our Stroke of Midnight Kimono Robe features detachable sleeves so you can keep your sleeves clean in you're the massager. Or wrap your lover in this silk style post-massage for the ultimate erotic touch.

meltable massage bars


We love this moisturizing massage bar, aka Sex Stone, from Kate McLeod that literally melts nourishing oils into your lover's skin as it kneads, massages and arouses. Bars like this one are particularly erotic because they're firm enough to let you put oomph into the muscle areas while slick enough to glide where you need to.

erotic massage bar tool
zalo feather tickler
UPKO feather tickler

feather play


A deliciously erotic massage mixes levels of pressure and sensual touch. We love to mix massage strokes with sweeps, teases and tickles from a feather tickler to keep that mystery and temptation alive. We're fans of this naughty white version from Zalo ($20) and this black option from UPKO ($40).

burn massage candle
meltable candle

meltable erotic massage candle


This baby from maude (aka "burn.") melts into a warm wax stacked with aphrodisiac scents that you can drip all over your lover and you (being careful to avoid sensitive zones). We also love the deliciously pourable, French-made formula, Mutha, that could only be hotter if they shipped it with its own French masseuse. 


aphrodisiac or unscented candles 


Flooding your pad with low-lit ambiance instantly creates a sensual vibe. You can opt for aphrodisiac candles or simple long-lasting tea lights or votives. Dirty Fig from Heretic blends base notes of bergamot, geranium, rose and more for that seductively succulent scent that sets the mood for erotic massage.

aphrodisiac incense

mood-making incense


Create an instant mood for erotic massage with scents that arouse your mind and body. Vyrao's Witchy aphrodisiac incense sticks open creativity and courage with a sexy blend of orris absolute, bergamot, patchouli, frankincense, cinnamon, sandalwood, among others. $50 for 30.

erotic blindfold


Keeping your lover blindfolded and in a state of relaxed suspense can heighten their experience. A simple black sleep mask will work or a scarf. If you don't have either on hand, keep the space candlelit and dark to up the eroticism.

blindfold massage

erotic massage oils


We love a good CBD-infused massage oil like the one from Lord Jones. Weleda warming massage oils act like lube for muscles. And we love Bloomi's version which is jacked with both CBD and botanical aphrodisiacs. In a pinch, use straight-up coconut oil, which is naturally anti-bacterial. 

cbd erotic massage oil
sexy silk sheets

silk or satin sheets

If you don't have a massage table, you can always use your bed. Switching out the sheets adds a sexier vibe and sets the tone for the unexpected. If you don't have silk or satin sheets, a fresh set of ultra-soft flannel cotton can feel plush against the skin.

multipurpose body massager


One person's body massage tool is another person's clit vibrator, but hey we're not judging. That said, there are so many, er, "body massagers" on the market from Theragun (def not for sensitive areas) to Lola, but we're stans for the OG Magic Wand. What it lacks in sex appeal and aesthetic, it makes up for in pure performance. On the body.

body massager for erotic masage
scalp massager

scalp massager


A scalp massage can not only deliver deep relaxation, but it also can turn your session into an erotic massage for people who love a good head rub. Just be sure to go extra slow so it stays sensual.

sexy sunday playlist

erotic massage playlist


You want your partner relaxed but not necessarily asleep. We love a good sensual playlist that's romantic, naughty or designed to stretch foreplay to mindnumbing levels. If you're massaging solo, a nice masturbation playlist for one works brilliantly.

a sitter ;)

If you've got pets or kids or both, this is the time to make the house your own. 

What massage tools do you use to heighten your erotic massage sessions? Comment below 👇💋

xxx, Lunatic Femme

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