12 sex positions you'll actually want to wear

Why get naked when your lingerie looks this delicious? Call us biased, but at Lunatic Femme, we believe the hottest sex positions are the ones you stay dressed for... to play, to tease, to flaunt, to flirt. And ICYMI, every piece of luxury lingerie in our launch chapter is named after the sex position it pairs brilliantly with (like a fine wine pairing but with silk, lace and juicy sex). Our rationale: When you look so fine in something, why not rock it for a while, tease your partner(s) or slow-strip it off instead of getting naked asap? Below, use these 12 iconic sex positions — inspired by kama sutra and tantric sex — paired with lingerie made to play, worship or [insert your pleasure here].


Feel free to experiment, remix and let us know which position(s) we should name our next lingerie play pieces after.

best sex position: the rider

your lunatic femme look: rider balconette bra

You're on top, in control and too hot strip. This twist on the classic Reverse Cowgirl, the Rider position gives your partner an irresistible view while your hands are free to touch, tease or guide. Let them unhook your bra while riding — or not. The lace, the silk, the tension? All intentional. And the hidden inside pocket? It perfectly fits a lip gloss, bullet vibe, condom or lube sachet. 


Bonus tip: Style with our Butterfly Waist Cincher worn as a choker. Add fingerless gloves for that extra edge.


best sex position: inquisitor

your lunatic femme look: inquisitor demi lace bra

This one's for oral fixation — because oral sex, like the Inquisitor, is always in style. Whether you're giving or receiving, you'll want something lacy, strappy and deliciously feminine. The forever sexy style invites attention with peek-through and a metal ring made for teasing (think harness play and styling). 


Bonus tip: Pair with a silk blindfold or cuffs (our 4-in-1 mask does both) to heighten submission play.


best sex position: boa

your lunatic femme look: boa panty with removable ties

This mesh-backed stunner is made to grind. Wrap your legs around theirs or let them lace and unlace you as you play — those silk ties aren't just for decoration. Or take the power into your own hands, unlace the ties and secure your partner's wrists for extra tease. 

Bonus tip: Use the silk ties to as restraints and secure your partners hands or ankles to a bed frame, a chair or you...


best sex position: the ohm

your lunatic femme look: ohm high-leg thong

best sex position ohm thong by lunatic femme

Inspired by tantric practice, this deliciously intimate look begs you to slow down, breathe and stroke their skin (and yours) with silk. Untie the removable lace silk tie to feather across your lover's skin, tie their ankles or wrists together, or tease them in whatever way your fantasies call to mind. Style the removable, adjustable silk-covered elastic band through the ring (pictured) or un-loop it and wear as a waist band or on your neck as a collar.


Bonus tip: Perfect for massage, mirror play or eye-gazing, whatever keeps you in the moment.


best sex position: tripod (a variation)

your lunatic femme look: veil micro g-string

best sex position micro g string

Designed for oral-on-the-go or anywhere-you-please moments. This whisper-light tulle g-string slides off (or out of the way) easily, so you don't have to pause to get your pleasure.


Bonus tip: Layer under a crotchless panty for a fast little peel-off fantasy.


best sex position: champagne room

your lunatic femme look: champagne room 33 lace-up bodysuit

A sex position sipping and whatever else your imagination conjures. Pop a bottle, bend your knees and let them untie the silk ties while you work your hip magic.


Bonus tip: Style with leg garters and heels for role play and/or a luxurious striptease.


best sex position: déjà vu 11

your lunatic femme look: déjà vu 11 cupped bodysuit with harness

Transform your look mid-ride (or not). Or simply remove the harness or reconfigure it into something new when you feel like you've been here before, but want to switch it up. Consider this your antidote to boredom. 


Bonus tip: Remove the harness straps and re-style as leg garters.


best sex position: déjà vu 18

your lunatic femme look: déjà vu 18 cupless bodysuit with harness

No cups, no apologies. This bondage-style play piece features detachable hip bands that can be re-attached to themselves and worn as garter-style bands on arms, thighs or wherever you crave compression, play and pleasure.


Bonus tip: Pair with nothing but heels and a slicked-back ponytail.


best sex position: butterfly

your lunatic femme look: butterfly silk waist cincher

When you're DTF but not DTTake off your waist cincher, pick the position that lets you fuck hard and fashion harder. Effortlessly style it from bandeau to neck choker to corset and back again. Choose your look and your position.


Bonus tip: Pair with matching ohm thong or boa panty or style over your yummiest bodysuit.


best sex position: scorpion

your lunatic femme look: scorpion ring choker-collar

It's soft, it's strong, it unties with your teeth. Channel Scorpio energy and consensual kink with a silk choker that doubles as wrist restraints, a leg garter or a waist band. 


Bonus tip: Pair with your favorite bra and panty set or pop into the fridge, chill the ring, and tease your partner with temperature play.


best sex position: flatiron

your lunatic femme look: flatiron silk body harness

Style this minimalist lingerie harness to keep things hot at your hips and thighs. Reverse it for more exposure or position the straps where your partner can grab on.


Bonus tip: Layer over the champagne 33 bodysuit or under your favorite skirt or LBD.


best sex position: the chandelier

your lunatic femme look: chandelier silk waist harness

You're the one dangling from above, calling all the shots. This detachable harness lets you mix, match and strap however you like to style — while their hands stay busy worshipping.


Bonus tip: Pair with your favorite panties or these moonstruck backless boxers, thigh-high boots and an oversized jacket.




Ready to fuck around and find out? Shop lingerie made to play with iconic sex positions.


xxx, Lunatic Femme

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