pro sex tips: how to use your lingerie to talk dirty
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sex tip: use your lingerie as inspiration for dirty talk
If you're wearing lingerie, you're already wearing the most interesting sentence in the room. Question is whether you'll say it aloud. Not only can your play pieces provide endless creative sparks for dirty talk, they take the focus off you, put it on an object and lessen your pressure to perform.
Dirty talk usually fails to launch because you're editing yourself, but you're wearing lingerie, your body is anything but boring. And that is where we begin.
We've listed a few of our most inspired lingerie pieces and how to use them to kickstart your dirty talk game.
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talk dirty tip:
get super specific
Ask your lover describe what you’re wearing, how the silk hugs your curves, the lace teases their gaze. If there are strings, untie them. If there are zippers, unzip them. You write the story with your actions and prompts — "am I untying this for you? do you like how my ass looks in this lace?" do you like how I dress up just for you?" — then let them add their spice. Good girl.
talk dirty tip:
adorn them in your lingerie
An easy way to inspire your mouth to play is to dress up your lover in lingerie you're wearing. For instance, our French snake-lace stockings stretch to fit and feature a back zipper to deliciously reveal what's underneath. Our sheer, cropped lingerie hoodie features ultra-long ties that double as wrist restraints for you or them.
talk dirty tip:
slow the fuck down
A lot of the sexiness in the sheets can come from the anticipation, the build, the unknown. So whether you're slowly peeling off layers or building a fantasy or reveling in your body and theirs, slowing down gives you more time to play. Using your lingerie's features can help. Got a zipper? Ask your lover to unzip you, but they have to follow your cues or commands. Or perhaps they remove your leg garters with their teeth. Your g-string with their mouth.
talk dirty tip:
make them guess what's underneath
We love when lingerie hides a big reveal... and this bustier does. Its zip-off, double-lined silk cups zip off to reveal your sexiest pasties, naughtiest nipple clamps, absolutely nothing at all, a sweet surprise or some combination. Let them guess what you're hiding underneath and up the stakes with rewards if they answer correctly. It's a surprise and delight moment with a sexy payoff that you can tease them through from beginning to end.
talk dirty tip:
ignite their imagination
With their eyes hidden from seeing you, describe the lingerie you're wearing and let them guess what awaits when they open their eyes. Guide their fingers to touch what you're describing — the plushest leather over your nipples, the softest silk grazing your neck, the tightest wraps on your thighs.
talk dirty tip:
put your scent on them
Spritz your most delicious play pieces — like our SNKX harnesses — with your signature sultry scent then tell them if they behave themselves, you'll mark your territory aka them. Tell them you're going to drag this harness over every inch of them and make them yours. Tie them, restrain them... or vice versa... and let the power play begin. If you don't have a signature scent, your pheromones work just fine.
talk dirty tip:
tempt them all day
Send them an image of the Cakewalk Stockings before you leave the house. Zero explanation and a million questions running through their mind.
Dirty talk will flow when you meet up later.
talk dirty tip:
worship the fuck out of them
Let them worship your pussy through sweet talk, flirting, gazing, stroking and all-around celebrating how if looks, feels, smells, works... Trade with your partner and worship their cock or pussy. Sometimes talking dirty flows more naturally when you've got a mission... and this one's all about making your lover feel like a king or queen. Not sure where to start? Compliments.
let them trace the lace and embroidery of our love triangle set, while you tell them how it feels.
talk dirty tip:
see anything you like?
Once they describe everything they see through your sheerest layers, tell them exactly what you want. I want you lift my dress and bend me over. I want to you slip me out of this dress with your teeth. I want feel your mouth on me. I want you to slip your fingers under my dress, this lace, my thong... Adding layers adds to more exploration, more play and more pleasure.
talk dirty tip:
tie them up first
If your partner likes to touch, maybe put an end to that by untying the ties on your bodysuit or blindfold and securing their hands and feet to each other, to a bedpost, to a chair... get creative and describe the process as you're doing it. No ties, no blindfold? How about sexy g-string? Once they're restrained, now you get to take the second tie of your bodysuit and drag it over their body, teasing them with your words, your play, maybe even your strip. Let them know you're going to tease them mercilessly, tell them your going to tickle their body with your silk. Maybe you'll let them smell you, taste you, breathe you in. Ask them what they want.
talk dirty tip:
unzip one place at a time
Ouvert pieces, like harnesses, crotchless panties, zipper tanks and other open styles, show your lover (almost) everything. Use that to your advantage.
talk dirty tip:
be the tease
Put on a lingerie fashion show and be your own emcee. Cover yourself with a kimono and little by little reveal more of what's beneath the silk as you walk your catwalk. Narrate what they're seeing, how it makes you feel and what you plan to do with it later.
