up your foreplay game with erotic massage tools

We like to think that the hottest, at-home sensual massages are a combination of passion, curiosity, communication and, of course, tools. We rounded up some toys, oils and other massage must-haves, along with sultry lingerie, to up-level your home-massage game so you give and receive yummier erotic massage experiences without leaving the house.

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erotic blindfold

 

Keeping your lover blindfolded and in a state of relaxed suspense can heighten their experience. Our 4-in-1 mask-blindfold comes with three ties (French lace, eco-silk + embroidery) so you can completely block out light or give them a veiled experience. Or, flip the script and style as a mask for erotic massage role play. 


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meltable massage bars

 

We love this moisturizing massage bar, aka Sex Stone, from Kate McLeod that literally melts nourishing oils into your lover's skin as it kneads, massages and arouses. Bars like this one are particularly erotic because they're firm enough to let you put oomph into the muscle areas while slick enough to glide where you need to.

a 2-in-1 erotic robe

 

Keep it sexy by trading in that old flannel robe with a silk, multi-way kimono style. Our Stroke of Midnight Kimono Robe features detachable sleeves so you can keep your sleeves oil-free when you're the massager. Or wrap your lover in this silk style post-massage for the ultimate erotic touch.


aphrodisiac or unscented candles 

 

Flooding your pad with low-lit ambiance instantly creates a sensual vibe. You can opt for aphrodisiac candles or simple long-lasting tea lights or votives. Dirty Fig from Heretic blends base notes of bergamot, geranium, rose and more for that seductively succulent scent that sets the mood for erotic massage.

booty massage-ready boxers

 

Deliciously soft, backless briefs lets their luscious booty take the spotlight for focused sensual massage. Or, if you're the massager, wear them and gift your massagee a gentle spank if they're a good client.


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exfoliating loofahs or sponges


Make your at-home session last longer by adding a little bath-time foreplay to get you both relaxed. Bathing each other preps skin for the oils, ignites skin and creates connection. If you're down for bath or shower play, gently dry brush your lover (or yourself) starting from the feet and working your way up to exfoliate, increase circulation and prep skin for oils. This extra, erotic step ignites the body and gets you both in the moment.

erotic collar

 

Remind your lover to surrender by collaring them with a silky neck choker that gently delivers enough tension to keep them chill and under control. If they misbehave, the collar opens wide enough to double as wrist or ankle restraints.


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mood-making incense

 

Create an instant mood for erotic massage with scents that arouse your mind and body. Vyrao's Witchy aphrodisiac incense sticks open creativity and courage with a sexy blend of orris absolute, bergamot, patchouli, frankincense, cinnamon, sandalwood, among others. $50 for 30.

multiplay erotic restraints

 

Our multiplay SNKX straps were made to play on bodies + off. Wrap them over wrists, ankles, massage beds and bodies to restrain your lover, style them as harnesses with your fav bra and panty sets or use them as leashes when your massage "client" needs to submit. 


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feather play

 

A deliciously erotic massage mixes levels of pressure and sensual touch. We love to mix massage strokes with sweeps, teases and tickles from a feather tickler to keep that mystery and temptation alive. We're fans of this naughty white version from Zalo ($20) and this black option from UPKO ($40).

massage-ready thongs + g-strings


A sensual massage stokes all your senses so ensure you're just as much of a visual feast as you are an erotic one. Our Hot Stack g-string and thong trio, a barely there stack of peel-off-able panties, let you reward them with a slow reveal during the massage. Includes silk, embroidery + French lace to give fingers more to explore.


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meltable erotic massage candle


This baby from maude (aka "burn.") melts into a warm wax stacked with aphrodisiac scents that you can drip all over your lover and you (being careful to avoid sensitive zones). We also love the deliciously pourable, French-made formula, Mutha, that could only be hotter if they shipped it with its own French masseuse. 

erotic massage playlist

 

You want your partner relaxed but not necessarily asleep. We love a good sensual playlist that's romantic, naughty or designed to stretch foreplay to mindnumbing levels. If you're massaging solo, a nice masturbation playlist for one works brilliantly.

Gua Sha Massage Tool


These super-trendy facial tools get props for their ability to increase circulation and boost collagen to help fight aging, but they're also an amazing way to relieve stress and ease tension in the face, neck and shoulders when massaging your lover (or yourself). We prefer stainless steel or natural stones.

erotic massage oils


We love a good CBD-infused massage oil like the one from Lord Jones. Weleda warming massage oils act like lube for muscles. And we love Bloomi's version which is jacked with both CBD and botanical aphrodisiacs. In a pinch, use straight-up coconut oil, which is naturally anti-bacterial. 

silk or satin sheets

If you don't have a massage table, you can always use your bed. Switching out the sheets adds a sexier vibe and sets the tone for the unexpected. If you don't have silk or satin sheets, a fresh set of ultra-soft flannel cotton can feel plush against the skin.

multipurpose body massager


One person's body massage tool is another person's clit vibrator, but hey we're not judging. That said, there are so many, er, "body massagers" on the market from Theragun (def not for sensitive areas) to Lola, but we're stans for the OG Magic Wand. What it lacks in sex appeal and aesthetic, it makes up for in pure performance. On the body.

a sitter ;)

If you've got pets or kids or both, this is the time to make the house your own. 



What massage tools do you use to heighten your erotic massage sessions? Comment below.

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