14 sexy things you can start today to add a little juice to your sex life

Looking for ways to squeeze more juice out of (or into?) your sex life? We've got some mostly easy-to-implement play starters that will help stir your mood and ignite your creativity. Add your own personality and preferences to the below ideas and get your party started.

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pussy gazing
whether it's you and your mirror or you and a partner... experts say taking in your most precious view increases intimacy, comfort, personal power and more.

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stroke practice
working out those hip moves for riding dick helps keep hips flexible, move energy in your body, stir arousal and increase confidence whether or not actual dick riding is on your agenda. 

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got one? if not, talking about it with your partner opens the door for the types of kink you'd like to add to your sex life. if you've already got one, dust that baby off.

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on a hike, in a bar bathroom, at the beach, in a driveway or parking lot, it's the ultimate surprise and delight.

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switch up your vocals in bed. if you're normally loud, try being silent AF. and if you're pretty quiet, test-drive that dirty talk or at least some yummy, toe-curling, neighbor-waking moans.

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naked yoga is definitely a thing. if it's not your thing, make up your own sexy naked activity... could be as simple as naked cocktail hour or a no-clothes Saturday. 

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sure, you might not find one today, but you ease into it grabbing a drink at a sex club or sex dungeon while you scope the scene or joining a virtual sex party. 

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anal, nipple, throat, there's a whole host of orgasmic potential beyond the G-spot. hunt yours down and as long as you stay in your pleasure, not your brain, practice is the practice. 

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but this time, see if you can take them or yourself to the brink without orgasming for days at a time.  

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you can tie or handcuff your lover to the bed or... you can give them a little leash to roam, explore, tease. see what happens when they have room to play (or provoke). which role do you like better?

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if you haven't worked with your own energy or a partner's, put it on your weekend sex menu. we love jamie butler's tips for full-body, energy-based orgasms and partner play. 

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wigs, a new lipstick, a fuck-off heel you'd never wear, a bodysuit that hugs all your curves, body paint, a mask... looking different can make you feel different and bring new game, excitement and passion to your play time.

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sure, who doesn't love a good ol' foot, ass, breast, yoni or cock massage? but there's something super-erotic about slow, sensual head rub.