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you blindfolded them. now what? 27 sexy ways to play after you blindfolded your lover
blindfolded and ready to play: 27 ways to surprise and seduce
So you've got your blindfold, the mood is set and your partner is all yours. What next?
Assuming you've got consent, boundaries and a safe word in place (always, babes), let this be guidebook for surprising, delighting, titillating and exciting your playmate with post-blindfold pleasure.
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1. give them an erotic massage.
Fingers, hands, elbows, feet, breasts.. your entire body becomes a tool for touch. Build anticipation by varying speed, pressure and sensation to keep them ignited. Bonus points if you add aromatherapy and sensual massage oils to the mix.
Bonus: Slip into — and unzip out of — the Sweet Tooth Zippered Panty to make body-to-body massage even more deliciously slow and irresistible.
2. rev them up with erotic ear candy.
Think ASMR like sensual breathing, juicy kissing, orgasmic pleasure, that low moan when you land on just the right spot. Hit up YouTube for ideas + videos.
3. let them undress you (without their eyes).
Put on something new and let them explore. Invite them to linger over textures they love — lace, leather, silk, metal — let them guess what you're wearing as you guide their touch.
Make blindfold play a little more interesting with the Déjà Vu 11 Bodysuit by letting them use their fingers to trace where the harness straps lead. Or, if they're into impact play, a little snap of elastic at the hips may be on their menu.
4. dance with them.
Find a playlist that moves your body and let it guide the two of you in moving together. Sensually, naughtily, romantically, happily. Your music, your mood, your connected movement.
5. read them erotica.
Your voice becomes their fantasy. Read a sexy story aloud, make one up as you go or pull a plot line from your imagination. Whisper it into their ear as you bring it to life.
6. dial up the deprivation.
They can’t see, so what if you also gave them earplugs to pair with the blindfold? Muffled sound can heighten their other senses like smell and touch and keep them in that sexy state of anticipation.
7. Play with temperatures.
Trace their skin with ice cubes or warm towels. Use heated massage oils or cool metal toys. Temperature changes = sensory spikes.
Style with the Scorpion Ring Collar, chilled in the fridge for a sensual surprise.
8. add a soundtrack.
Choose music that mimics your movements. Hard and fast? Slow and hypnotic? Naughty and grindy? The right beat can take them deeper. Describing how you're moving to the rhythm.
9. feed them treats.
Blindfolded, taste becomes foreplay. Feed them the juiciest fruit, stickiest honey, fluffiest whipped cream or drippiest chocolate from your fingertips — or your mouth. Don't forget to tempt their lips, their tongue, their skin as you play.
Pair with our Moonstruck Backless Boxers for a decadent twist on dessert.
10. worship their cock or pussy.
Let your mouth do the work while they can’t see a thing. Your voice, your hands, your breath, everything becomes heightened.
11. incorporate aphrodisiac scents.
Place a few drops of essential oil-based massage oils everywhere you want to be kissed. Use aphrodisiac incenses and body scents to change the mood, surprising them with new scents or alternating between spicy, floral, woodsy to heighten arousal.
12. kiss them all over.
Vary your style, your pressure, your lips versus tongue, your location to awaken every inch of their body.
13. add some dirty talk.
Say what you want. Describe what you’re doing. Make them beg.
Wear the Rider Balconette Bra to unlock your wildest inner narrator. Slip a little lipstick or lip liner in the secret pocket to draw your naughtiest word onto their skin.
14. trade kisses for tickling.
Instead of kisses, tickle their skin and erogenous zones with your breath, your fingers, a feather, some silk. Be slow and gentle (this isn’t “tickle torture” unless they specifically put that on the menu.)
15. share a fantasy.
Whisper your wildest dreams into their ear...a new position, a position from your sex bucket list? Seduce them with explicit detail and let their imagination go off.
16. bathe them.
Surprise them with bubbles, sexy oils, waterproof toys, textured sponges, a yummy playlist... or not. Make it as long, lingering and sudsy as they can take.
17. give them a role-play scenario.
Teacher/student. Muse/artist. Goddess/devotee. Then act if out. Bonus points if you can incorporate other games like temperature, texture play or food play.
18. just add restraints.
Sure they’re already blindfolded, but why not up the ante with handcuff, silk ties or bondage tape to increase their anticipation (and vulnerability) while creating a yummy canvas for you both to play.
19. find the [insert food here].
Place something edible on your body (think chocolate sauce, a brandied cherry, a ripe piece of mango flesh) and let them find it with their mouth.
20. edge them toward orgasm.
Start. Stop. Start again. Build anticipation with edging, that slow build and backing off of orgasm. It's a sexy kink on its own, but when blindfolded? You just add a whole new level of anticipation.
21. tease them with texture.
Have a toolbox of toys and playthings that you can drag over their skin and erogenous zones to see if they can guess what’s stroking them. Your fingernails? A feather? Some silk or rope? A frozen strawberry? A brush? Your hair…
22. paint their body.
Use body-safe paint, CBD chocolate sauce, your favorite whipped cream…. Write messages and see what they can decipher.
23. make them your pet.
Stroke them. Pet them. Guide them. Command them. Make them beg for what they want. Add a collar or leash if that's your thing.
24. gift them a new toy.
Give them a surprise vibe, the strap-on they've been eyeing, a new lube, and let them guess what it is by feel alone.
Use our leg garters to secure the wrapping paper or simply slide them over your legs (or theirs) for extras surprise and delight.
25. bring a friend.
If a threesome's on the table (or floor or counter...), let the surprise hands, lips and mouths drive them wild. Consent, again, is everything.
26. werk that booty.
Start with a massage. Play with the perineum. Move slowly into anal touch, if that’s in the shared yes zone.
27. make an impact.
Spank. Thump. Tap. Try different rhythms to surprise and arouse.
Bonus.... switch places + you wear the blindfold instead.
Ready to blindfold and blow their mind? Share your sexy tricks.
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