11 ways to flirt with your lover using your lingerie
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not a professional flirt? perfect. let your lingerie do the talking
The very mission of a flirt is to take up space in their minds and there are countless ways to get there.
From lingering gazes, coy smiles and sultry smirks to low whispers, playful teases and lusty compliments, flirting gets a sexy upgrade when you pair it with your lingerie... or better yet, let your lingerie do all the work for you.
Below some sultry ways to add more flirt to your everyday life. Use them to inspire your next play date or come up with your own new ways to tease your partner.
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1. how to flirt by...
using your body as a treasure map
Part love notes, part scavenger hunt... Write where you'd like to be kissed, licked, stroked, complimented, worshiped, massaged or sucked on your skin in lip liner under your lingerie. Let your lover go on a hunt to find all the activities that await.
use a bodysuit to direct the treasure hunt
2. how to flirt by...
wearing your heart on your sleeve.
Let them undress you from the outside in. For example, wear a bustier (minus the cups) over a tank top. Wear a body harness over a body con dress or catsuit. Wear a waist cincher over a button down shirt.
3. how to flirt by...
handing them the reins
There's a very specific power play at work when you ask someone to tighten something against your body. Use it and let the feeling replay in their mind and fingertips the entire night.
4. how to flirt by...
stroking them.
Touch them like you mean business. Nothing articulates your interest and your desire like the soft stroke of a fingertip on the hand or shoulder or cheek. Want to mesmerize them even more? Let the air kiss fingerless opera gloves tickle their skin.
5. how to flirt by:
making them work for it
Layer on pieces — like the hot stack stackable g-string and thongs — so they’ll enjoy thinking about peeling them off, one delicious delicate at a time. The ultimate flirt flex? Make them sit and watch while you slip them off one silky strip at a time.
"how many strips does it take..."
6. how to flirt by:
trading sexts for flirty texts
Send them a pic of the lingerie you’ll be wearing that night or ask them what piece they’d like to slip off you that night. Make sure that piece is visible all night so they know what's coming up later. Or, keep it hidden and keep them guessing until your reveal.
7. how to flirt by:
show your skin
Think sheer off-shoulder tops or strappy little dresses paired with a strapless bra, a balconette with stunning lace straps or no bra at all, or even our cropped lingerie hoodie with peekaboo snake lace that suggests just enough.
8. how to flirt by:
holding their gaze...
Linger in eye contact a little longer than feels polite. It's a look, a charge, a pulse that tells them something's coming. Feeling shy? Love to be the provocateur? Add a sexy, silky play mask, veil or blindfold to keep mystery alive.
9. how to flirt by:
hinting at your freaky side
Let them in on your kinky little secret with a subtle nod to how you like to play. Whether it’s a neck choker or wrist restraints (e.g. SNKX straps), use your accessories to ignite their imagination. We made our Sweet Tooth Panty and Feral Catsuit Romper with 2-way zippers that leave lovers wondering where, when and how they'll unzip them later.
10: how to flirt by:
seducing them with textures
Ignite their senses with fabrics that feel impossible not to touch. Whether it’s silk, cashmere, leather, lace or cold, hard metal (or 14k-gold hardware), or all of the above, swathe your skin in your favorite textures. Graze their skin and tease them for what's to come later.
11 how to flirt by:
dressing like no one's watching
Let them think they're playing the voyeur by watching you dress (or undress) as if you don't know they're there. You're in control. They think they are.
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claire coghlan
claire coghlan is an award-winning editor, author, speaker, ghostwriter + writer for New York Times, Los Angeles Times, Vanity Fair, Vogue, Forbes, InStyle, Women's Wear Daily and more.
