turn up the volume
Hit play and get the blood pumping in your veins with a playlist of beats that are guaranteed to get your body moving and grooving.
Kick off your night with a celebratory toast to what’s about to go down. Even if your drink of choice is a non-alcoholic, adaptogenic sip, let it flow.
eat good-mood foods
Have small bites on hand to boost your energy and mood, and keep you from cocktailing on an empty stomach. Remember, you're in it for the long haul, pace yourself.
rattle and hum
Take some rich, deep, long breaths and shake your arms, your hips, your legs to get yourself into an anything’s-about-to-go-down state of mind — bonus points if you add an acoustic accent like bangles or an ankle chain.
pick your sexiest fit
Don’t go for the hottest trends, instead wear what makes you feel your hottest. Leather bottoms, a sultry pair of stilettos, jewelry that ignites everywhere it touches, lingerie….
Whether you style your lingerie as fashion or wear it as your secret power piece, slipping on sexiest bras, panties, bodysuits, bustiers or catsuits can feel like instant power and play.
get ready with your besties
Start the party early with a “get ready with me” IRL that gets you in your flow early.
heels heels heels
Nothing elevates your mood, your outlook and your booty like a pair of strappy heels (or thigh-high boots).
grab the mic
Exercise your vocal cords, your tongue, your lips and your mood by belting out some tunes. Sing like you mean it.
create an olfactory tasting menu
Leave a trail of delicious scents all over your body. Musk behind your ears, amber on your wrists, oud between your breasts, vanilla between your thighs….
stock up on hangover fixes
Make sure you have your supplements of choice on hand so the next morning is spent reminiscing, not slamming cheeseburgers and aspirin.
set a sensual ambiance
Light up an aphrodisiac candle, your sexiest incense, a smooth AF joint. Add a fresh bouquet of stunning flowers for a little feminine eye candy (besides you). Think texture, fragrance, visuals.
charge up those vibes
Stash your ready-to-play discreet vibes into your clutch and charge your full-size vibrators so they’re fired up for when you get home.
invite la luna to the party
Whether it’s a quarter, half or full moon, make sure to let her light shine on the festivities. Because, doesn’t the moon make us all a little crazy in the best possible way?
put the V in your VIP list
Not everyone deserves an invitation to your party. Whether it’s an intimate gathering at home or a party on the town, curate a guest list that reflects who you are and what you deserve.
draw your own velvet rope
If one of your VIPs steps out of line, set clear boundaries that honor the soul of the party (ie, you).
restock your “makeup bag”
Band-aids, condoms, lip oil, mini lube, mini flogger, breath mints, disposable toothbrush to go, vape, gummies, whatever you need to stay on your game.
Remember your 1:1 rule (1 cocktail: 1 water) is the sexiest way to stay on your heels (and your game) all night.
know when it's over
It’s great to be there for the last call, but if you’re done, you’re done. It’s always your call.
ignite your own body
Give yourself an erotic massage with head-to-toe body oil, masturbate, luxuriate in a bath… whatever pleasure your body craves, give it to her.
make it a royal preparation
Whether it’s a mani–pedi, a Brazilian, a spray-on body tan, a blow-out, a kick-boxing session, do that thing that makes you feel like the queen of the night so you’re ready for your night.
stash some cash
Yeah, we know no one's carrying cash anymore, but we still keep an emergency stash of bills in our bag just because a queen always has her own back and is prepared for anything and cash is queen, as they say.