cock worship 101: give 'em that big dick energy
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up your cock worship skills with these tips
Unlike most other pleasures of the cock, worshiping isn't a technique. It's purely about attention. Slow attention. Undivided attention. Adoring attention. The kind of attention that makes the cock forget its name, its address and how it even got there. You can steal its phone, its keys, its car. It'll be sleeping off the hangover of two hours of adoration by the time it wakes up and realizes you're gone.
And before anyone gets the wrong idea, this is about desire... not obligation, performance or submission. If the idea lights you up, read on. If not, no hard feelings. There are plenty of other ways to spend an evening, but this one's really good if you're into it.
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who's getting worshiped?
Anyone with a penis who's enthusiastically opted in the for the experience. Revolutionary concept, we know. And, of course, the lover is the worshiper aka the giver. Consenting penises only. Even if it seems like all dicks are DTF, always ask what's on the table, off the table, what they like and where they feel like going in that moment. People, like preferences, change, and who knows what they've got going on.
what's actually happening here
Most cocks have never been the whole point of slow seduction, let alone savoring, admiration and affection. Tonight, they are. Forget the finish line. Pleasure, not orgasming, is the entire agenda. Ask anyone you know with a penis and they'll say it's rare to have so much attention lavished on their cock. Tonight's their lucky night.
how slow is slow?
Slower than feels normal. Then slower than that. If you're rolling up for a quickie, this is not that assignment.
let the worshiping begin
worship with their eyes blindfolded...
How do they respond when you take away their sight? Let them hear your words, your breath and the music. Let them feel your fingers, your toys, your hair against their skin. Remove one sense and watch the others clock in for overtime. Make it really interesting and mask yourself, too.
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worship with your words...
What man doesn't want a cock compliment? Tell him exactly what's driving you wild. The curve. The size. The way it fits in your hand. The things you've caught yourself thinking about in the middle of an otherwise productive day. Be specific. Generic compliments are for LinkedIn. Cock worship calls for your best NSFW material.
worship with your hands...
Think outside the cock... abs, thighs, chest, the inside of his wrist. Take the scenic route. Think of it like a road trip where getting lost is part of the plan. Vary the strokes, the rhythm, the pressure. Ask what he likes and make him wait forever to get it. Temptation and teasing are your friends. So are massage oil, lube and sex serum.
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worship with your mouth, your hands, your tongue, your breath...
This isn't speed dating for genitals. Take your time. Add your hands. Add your mouth. Add your breath. Then take something away again. Build anticipation. Ruin it. Build it back up. Grab a drink of water. Promise he'll wait. If he's getting close, you have options. A bigger orgasm later is one of them.
worship with your lingerie...
Wear the piece you'd never be able to justify on a budgeting spreadsheet. The panties that unzip. The bodysuit that changes how you walk. The bra that secretly stashes your lube for later. A g-string can become a cock ring. Silk can become foreplay. The right piece doesn't just sit there looking pretty, it participates with threesome-level energy.
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worship with your pre-game...
Make him watch you build your worship station. Gather your tools. Put on your playlist. Slip on your lingerie, your stockings, your heels. Add some accessories. Take way too long. Bring out some toys, then put them away because you've thought of some better way to play.
worship with your connection...
Kneel between his legs. Look at him. Then look at his cock. Then look back at him. When was the last time you've made eye contact that long? That's part of the appeal.
worship with your pace...
Normally when things get hot, we get excited, we speed up. Not today. Try the opposite. Slow down. Slow down again. Slow down even more. You're not racing toward an orgasm, you're making it late for its next appointment.
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worship with your eyes...
Take your sweet time looking. The girth, the length, the color. The details you haven't noticed before. Tell them what's exciting you and feel free to elaborate (they like that). Don't be the person who spends more time choosing their DoorDash delivery than they do studying the thing they're about to put in their mouth. Correct the imbalance.
worship with playthings...
Add in toys, like cock rings, massagers, feathers, rope, something frozen and edible... to vary the texture, the temperature and the play.
worship with music...
Build a custom cock-loving playlist. Curate a soundtrack with songs they're experiencing now for the first time, so when they hear that song six months from now, say at work drinks with their boss, they immediately transport to now.
worship with time...
Worship should start way before you hit the bedroom. A text at lunch. A look across the room. A hand on their thigh that lingers a second too long. By the time your plans actually begin, he's already yours.
If you're a cock worshipper, don't hold back. Share your best stories. And don't forget to check out our pussy worshiping story when it's time to reciprocate.
