Whether you're partnered or flying solo, staying in your sexual flow can be your superpower. That's because the more lustful (or creative or spiritual) you feel, the more brilliantly that ignited energy moves into other areas of your life. 
Because we believe it's all one deliciously powerful source of passion, here are some ways to stay charged up (and sexed up) even when schedules, obligations or drive cause your desire to wane.
xxx
how to have more sex
Keep your passion alive in the bedroom by keeping it alive (or re-igniting it) in other areas of your life. Is there one thing that gets your juices flowing? Get on it.
•••
Schedule your booty calls, whether solo or partnered up. It might sounds boring now, but it won't be once you start. Hit a playlist to shift your mind.
•••
Practice solo so you stay in the mood. What's that they say about creating habits? Sorry, we couldn't hear you over our vibrator.
•••
Don’t have so many rules (ie you don’t have to have an O). The more restrictions you place on where, when, how long, the end game, the more stress you put on feeling good. Backwards, huh?
•••
Make it a challenge. A week of foreplay only. A month of new positions. A weekend wearing only your sexiest lingerie or nothing at all. 
•••
Flirt with each other (or yourself if you're solo) even when there’s no immediate end game.
•••
Go on dates... with your partner, with yourself, with your bestie who can remind you how fvcking luscious you are.
••• 
Mutual masturbation. Simultaneously, one at a time.
•••
Open up your relationship(s). Some experts suggest that if it can add more spice, curiosity and sexual energy to your relationship as long as you’re both on board. 
•••
If you’re partnered, create a weekly meeting for unsexy household topics to free up space for more intimate conversations.
•••
Create a ritual or two designed to bolster intimacy, whether that’s a sunset walk, evening happy hour or coffee in bed and use that time to *not* talk about work, bills or other mood-killing topics.
•••
Juice up your foreplay by stretching it out, testing out new techniques (edging, anyone?), making it an interactive game (e.g. “do you like this or that?”).
•••
Bring in newness (a toy, an accessory, a piece of lingerie), the perfect an excuse to play.
how to have more sex
•••
Play…. Keep that flow state high-vibing with laughter, fun, joy and see how you can bring that mood to your partner and the bedroom.
•••
Follow the exercise mentality… you just put on your shoes to gear yourself up for a run. Wear your sexiest (panties, bustier, corset, bodysuit) and see if your mood turns lusty.
•••
Change your routine, change the room, the lighting, the position. Mystery, curiosity can spark your drive and get back your flow.
•••
Say yes to quickies to keep that lust going and fire ignited.
•••
Feel sexy (is that perfume, a garter, a feather boa, a choker, your sexiest LBD?).  
•••
Just add weed. It's an instant aphrodisiac (especially if it's legal in your state ;), which may help you prioritize sex over, say, washing the dishes or sending those last few emails.
•••
Try new music to see how your body reacts. Do you move differently, feel more confident, engage more, initiate more? 
••• •••
How do you squeeze in more fvckmaking? Share, sweet thing  👇💋
tags: sex tips
share
facebook twitter pinterest